The New York City Anti-Violence Project (AVP) has been a lifeline for the LGBTQ+ community since 1980. Their mission is clear: to end all forms of violence through organizing, education, and direct support for survivors.

For queer and non-monogamous communities, safety isn’t just about what happens in play spaces. It’s about navigating a world where hate crimes, domestic violence, police misconduct, and systemic discrimination still put us at risk. AVP steps into that gap with resources designed specifically for LGBTQ+ people.

What AVP Offers

• 24/7 Bilingual Hotline – Immediate crisis support for survivors of violence, harassment, or abuse.
• Counseling & Support Groups – Trauma-informed care for survivors of intimate partner violence, hate violence, sexual violence, and more.
• Legal Services – Help with immigration, protective orders, housing, and navigating law enforcement.
• Community Organizing – Building coalitions to push for systemic change in how institutions respond to LGBTQ+ people.
• Training & Education – Helping organizations, schools, and law enforcement understand LGBTQ+ identities and learn how to prevent and respond to violence.

Why AVP Matters for Consent Culture

Consent isn’t only about what happens in the bedroom or at a play party — it’s also about feeling safe in the world as a queer or non-monogamous person. AVP recognizes that violence doesn’t exist in isolation. It’s shaped by homophobia, transphobia, racism, misogyny, and economic inequality.

For members of the ENM, kink, and LGBTQ+ communities, AVP provides both immediate care for survivors and long-term advocacy to change the systems that perpetuate harm.

A Model of Intersectional Support

What makes AVP unique is its commitment to intersectionality. Survivors aren’t just statistics — they’re whole people who may be carrying multiple vulnerabilities at once. By centering the experiences of the most marginalized, AVP ensures that no one is left behind in the fight against violence.

Learn More & Support

You can find resources, get help, or donate to support their work at avp.org. Whether you need crisis support today or want to help create safer futures for LGBTQ+ communities, AVP is here to stand with you.

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