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Obon is observed in Japan and in Japanese communities around the world as a time of remembrance, connection, and respect for those who came before.

Traditions vary by region and family, but Obon is often associated with reflection, gathering, and acts of care that honour memory and continuity.

I want to acknowledge Obon without assuming how it is observed, or what it means in any one life.

Remembering can be quiet. It can also be communal. Either way, it carries weight because it acknowledges that relationships do not end cleanly at the edges of time.

If Obon is part of your tradition, I hope it offers moments of connection and care. And if it is not, the practice of remembering with intention may still feel gently relevant.

Gareth

About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, and the work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world. Read Why I created Consent Culture if you want to learn more about Gareth, and his past.

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