For anyone exploring polyamory and ethical non-monogamy in New York City, Open Love NY has long been a cornerstone of community, education, and connection. Founded in 2009, the group was created to offer a supportive and affirming space for people navigating non-traditional relationships — whether brand new to polyamory or seasoned in practicing it.

What Makes Open Love NY Special

Unlike many groups that focus primarily on play parties or dating, Open Love NY is first and foremost about community and support. Their events range from discussion groups and social mixers to educational panels and workshops, all centered on helping people find belonging and navigate the challenges and joys of non-monogamy.

At its heart, Open Love NY emphasizes:

• Inclusivity – welcoming people across genders, orientations, and relationship structures.
• Education – offering talks and resources about communication, boundaries, jealousy, compersion, and more.
• Connection – creating a place where people can meet others who share their values around honesty, consent, and love.

Why It Matters

Polyamory and ENM can sometimes feel isolating, especially in a culture that often defaults to monogamy as the only “real” relationship structure. Groups like Open Love NY help break that isolation by providing visibility, representation, and friendship.

They also set a strong example of ethical leadership in community building: prioritizing safety, accessibility, and diversity, while ensuring that newcomers feel welcomed without pressure or judgment.

Learn More

• Website: openloveny.com
• Meetup: Open Love NY on Meetup
• Social Media: @OpenLoveNY

A Community Worth Finding

Whether you’re curious about polyamory, navigating your first non-monogamous relationship, or simply looking for friends who understand your journey, Open Love NY is one of the best places to start. It’s more than just an organization — it’s a living network of people redefining love, relationships, and community together.

Related reading

These pieces continue the same thread around polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.

• Non-Monogamy 101: Foundations of Open Connection
• Expanding Networks in Non-Monogamy: Finding Supportive Communities, Safe Parties, and Vetted Spaces
• First Encounters in Non-Monogamy: Meeting People Through Apps, Communities, and Parties