The Different Site Search Options Explained
We’ve built three different ways for you to find answers:
1. Chatbot Conversation (this page)
The heart of this tool. The chatbot can hold a back-and-forth with you about anything related to consent, kink, BDSM, non-monogamy, or relationship dynamics.
- It’s conversational, so you can ask follow-up questions.
- Answers are drawn directly from our library of articles, FAQs, and glossaries—so it reflects the thoughtful, inclusive voice of our site.
- You can explore tricky topics like negotiating boundaries, emotional aftercare, jealousy in ENM, or STI testing conversations with supportive, context-aware responses.
2. AI Answer Engine
Prefer something direct? Use the Answer Engine to ask one question at a time and get a custom, standalone response.
- No chit-chat—just one thoughtful answer per question.
- Great for when you need quick clarity on things like safe words, impact play risks, or healthy polyamory agreements.
- Each answer is unique, written fresh from the site’s content base.
3. Keyword Search
If you’d rather read full resources yourself, try the Keyword Search.
- Type in a word or phrase and instantly get links to our articles, FAQs, and glossary terms.
- Perfect for browsing when you’re not sure exactly what to ask.
- Lets you dig deeper into topics at your own pace.
Get Started
You can start chatting right now. Pick whichever mode fits you best:
- Jump into a conversation with the chatbot.
- Use the answer engine for a single, direct reply.
- Or explore with keyword search to read full articles and FAQs.
No matter which path you choose, you’ll find supportive, thoughtful guidance to help you navigate consent, kink, and connection with confidence.