When people ask me why I choose to teach with Pagan’s Paradise, my answer is simple: because they create the kind of spaces where education and exploration go hand in hand.

In New York City, finding places that honor consent, curiosity, and authentic connection isn’t always easy. Pagan’s Paradise has built a reputation for doing exactly that — offering workshops, play parties, and community gatherings that welcome people into deeper conversations and experiences around kink, non-monogamy, and intimacy.

Why I Teach with Pagan’s Paradise

I’ve had the privilege of leading my Non-Monogamy 101, 201, and 301 workshops with Pagan’s Paradise, and what makes it unique is that learning doesn’t stop at the classroom door. Many of their events are structured so that workshops flow directly into after-hours gatherings, giving participants the chance to practice what they’ve learned — whether that’s communication skills, consent check-ins, or navigating group dynamics — in real, lived experiences.

That combination of education and embodiment is rare, and it’s what makes Pagan’s Paradise such a vital part of New York’s consent and kink community.

What Pagan’s Paradise Offers

  • Workshops & Classes – From non-monogamy and tantra to kink, group play, and communication.
  • Play Parties & Immersive GatheringsSafe, intentional spaces for people to explore at their own comfort level.
  • Consent-Driven Culture – Every event emphasizes safety, boundaries, and respect, making them a trusted place for newcomers and veterans alike.
  • Inclusive Community – Welcoming people across genders, orientations, and experiences.

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More Than a Party

For me, Pagan’s Paradise isn’t just another event host. It’s a community hub where education, connection, and play exist on equal footing. Whether you’re brand new to non-monogamy or years into your journey, it’s a place to learn, to meet others, and to step into your curiosity with confidence.

About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform dedicated to fostering understanding, communication, and respect in the realms of consent, kink, and ethical non-monogamy. With a background in running play parties, creating consent policies, and teaching self-defense, Gareth’s mission is to empower individuals and communities to engage in meaningful, judgment-free conversations about boundaries, intersectionality, and sexual health. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and create a safer, more connected world.

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