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A Vee relationship is a type of polyamorous structure where one person, known as the "hinge" or "center," is romantically or sexually involved with two other individuals who are not romantically involved with each other. This configuration resembles the letter "V," with the hinge at the point and the other two partners at the ends.

In a Vee relationship, the hinge maintains separate relationships with each partner, which can vary in emotional and sexual intensity. Importantly, the partners at the ends of the "V" do not have a direct romantic connection or relationship with each other, although they may have a friendly or platonic relationship. This structure allows for varied dynamics and levels of intimacy, depending on the agreements and boundaries set by the individuals involved.

For example, a person named Alex may be in a Vee relationship with two partners, Jamie and Morgan. Alex has a romantic relationship with both Jamie and Morgan, but Jamie and Morgan do not date or engage in a romantic relationship with each other. Their interactions may be limited to social gatherings or mutual events involving Alex, and the nature of their relationships with Alex can differ significantly, with one partner being more emotionally connected while the other may share primarily physical intimacy.

Communication and consent are crucial in a Vee relationship to ensure that all parties feel respected and valued, and to navigate any potential complexities that arise from having multiple partners.

A Vee Relationship is a type of relationship structure commonly found in polyamory and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. In a Vee Relationship, one person is romantically or sexually involved with two other individuals who are not romantically or sexually involved with each other. The central person (referred to as the "hinge" or "pivot") is connected to both partners but the partners are not romantically or sexually involved with each other, creating a V-shaped dynamic.


In a Vee Relationship, communication and boundaries are crucial to ensure that all parties feel respected, valued, and secure within the relationship. The hinge individual plays a pivotal role in maintaining open and honest communication between all parties involved. Each person's needs, desires, and boundaries should be clearly communicated and respected to ensure the health and success of the relationship.

For example, in a Vee Relationship, Alice is dating both Bob and Charlie. Bob and Charlie are not romantically involved with each other but are connected through their relationship with Alice. Alice acts as the hinge or pivot point in the relationship, maintaining separate connections with Bob and Charlie while also ensuring that both partners feel heard and supported.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, and the work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world. Read Why I created Consent Culture if you want to learn more about Gareth, and his past.

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