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Scene Support Volunteer

A Scene Support Volunteer is an individual who provides assistance and ensures safety within BDSM events or play parties. These volunteers play a crucial role in maintaining a secure environment, offering support to participants, and intervening if necessary to uphold the rules and ethics of the space.

Roles and Responsibilities

  • Monitoring Play Areas: Scene Support Volunteers keep an eye on activities to make sure all interactions adhere to the established rules and consents.
  • Offering Assistance: They provide help or information, especially to newcomers who might be unfamiliar with various practices or the environment.
  • Intervention: In cases of misconduct, non-consent, or safety concerns, volunteers step in to address the situation, which may involve stopping a scene or facilitating communication between parties.
  • Aftercare Support: Following intense scenes, these volunteers might offer emotional or physical support to participants, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for recovery.

Importance in the BDSM Community

Scene Support Volunteers are vital for fostering a safe, inclusive, and consensual environment. Their presence helps to enhance participants’ trust and comfort, knowing that there is someone to turn to in case of any distress or confusion. By performing these roles, volunteers contribute significantly to the overall wellbeing and safety of the BDSM community.

A Scene Support Volunteer is an individual within the kink and BDSM community who offers emotional, physical, or informational support during events, parties, or gatherings.



Scene Support Volunteers play a crucial role in ensuring the safety and well-being of participants in the community. They are often trained in conflict resolution, consent practices, and de-escalation techniques to handle challenging situations that may arise during events. These volunteers are there to provide a non-judgmental and supportive presence for individuals who may feel overwhelmed, anxious, or in need of assistance. Their primary focus is on creating a safer and more inclusive environment for everyone involved in the community.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, and the work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world.

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