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Parallel Polyamory is a form of polyamorous relationship structure where individuals have multiple romantic or sexual partners, but these relationships exist independently and do not overlap or interact with each other.

In parallel polyamory, each partner maintains their own separate relationships without the expectation or requirement for those relationships to engage with one another. This contrasts with hierarchical polyamory, where relationships may be prioritized, or with kitchen table polyamory, where all partners interact and socialize together.

For example, in a parallel polyamorous arrangement, Person A may be in a romantic relationship with Person B while also dating Person C, but Person B and Person C do not communicate or have a relationship with each other. This structure allows individuals to explore their connections without the complexities of intertwined partner dynamics, often emphasizing autonomy and personal boundaries within each relationship.

Overall, parallel polyamory highlights the flexibility of polyamorous arrangements by allowing partners to cultivate their own separate experiences while still engaging in multiple relationships.

Parallel Polyamory

Parallel polyamory refers to a style of polyamorous relationships where individuals in the relationship maintain separate and distinct romantic connections without much overlap or interaction between their partners. In parallel polyamory, each partner's relationships exist independently of each other, with limited involvement or integration between the different partners. This can be contrasted with more intertwined forms of polyamory where partners may interact, socialize, or even form connections with each other.


In parallel polyamory, individuals focus on their own relationships without necessarily seeking to create a network or community with their partners' other partners. This style can be chosen for various reasons, such as a desire for autonomy, independence, or a preference for keeping certain relationships separate. For example, in a parallel polyamorous dynamic, one partner may have a primary relationship with someone who is not involved with their other partners, and these relationships may remain distinct from each other.

While parallel polyamory allows individuals to maintain boundaries and privacy between their different relationships, it can also pose challenges in terms of communication, scheduling, and managing expectations. It is important for all parties involved to be clear about their boundaries, needs, and expectations to ensure that each relationship is healthy and fulfilling.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, and the real work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world.

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