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Choking is a physical act that can occur during sexual activities when pressure is applied to the neck, restricting airflow and potentially leading to a heightened state of arousal or excitement. In the context of BDSM and kink, choking is often used as a form of erotic asphyxiation, where the experience can intensify sensations and enhance the emotional connection between partners.

However, it is crucial to approach choking with extreme caution due to the serious risks associated with restricting airflow. Communication, consent, and safety protocols, such as using safe words or signals, are essential to ensure that all parties involved are comfortable and aware of their limits.

For example, some individuals may incorporate choking into their sexual encounters as a way to explore power dynamics or surrender, while others might find it pleasurable purely for the physical sensation it creates. Regardless of the intent, establishing trust and mutual understanding between partners is vital to ensure a safe and consensual experience.

Choking refers to a form of breath play or erotic asphyxiation in the context of BDSM and kink activities. It involves the restriction of airflow to the brain, either by applying pressure to the neck or obstructing the airway, for the purpose of enhancing sexual arousal or sensation.

Choking should only be practiced with full informed consent from all parties involved, with clear communication and established boundaries. It is crucial to prioritize safety and risk awareness when engaging in any form of breath play, as it can have serious and potentially fatal consequences if not performed correctly.

It is important to distinguish between consensual choking within a kink or BDSM dynamic and non-consensual choking, which is a form of assault and violence. In a consensual context, participants should have a clear understanding of the risks involved and have protocols in place for safe words or signals to stop the activity if needed.

Seeking education, training, and guidance from experienced practitioners or professionals in the BDSM community is highly recommended before engaging in any form of choking play.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, and the work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world.

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