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The Butterfly Gag is a type of BDSM gag designed to restrict speech while also ensuring comfort and safety for the submissive partner. This gag features a unique shape, resembling a butterfly, which encompasses the mouth but allows for some air passage through the sides.

The design typically consists of a soft, padded center that rests against the lips and a strap or harness that secures it in place around the head. The Butterfly Gag is often preferred for its ability to prevent the wearer from fully closing their mouth, making it difficult to speak while still allowing for breathing.

In practice, the Butterfly Gag is used in scenes where the dominant partner wishes to enhance feelings of submission and control without completely isolating the submissive’s ability to communicate non-verbally, such as through nodding or shaking their head. It can also be an excellent choice for individuals who are new to gags, as it provides a gentler experience compared to more restrictive options.

However, as with all BDSM accessories, it is crucial to prioritize consent and ensure that the submissive partner is comfortable with the use of a Butterfly Gag. Communication about limits, safety signals, and the overall context of the scene should always be established beforehand.

A Butterfly Gag is a type of gag used in BDSM play that consists of a pair of wing-like paddles connected by a central hinge. When worn, the paddles sit on either side of the mouth, resembling the wings of a butterfly. The central hinge allows the wearer to open and close their mouth to a limited extent, but the paddles restrict full movement and speech.


The Butterfly Gag is often used in BDSM scenes to enhance feelings of vulnerability and helplessness in the wearer. It can also be a visually appealing addition to a bondage ensemble. The design of the gag allows for some level of control over the wearer's ability to speak, eat, or make certain movements with their mouth, adding an element of power play to the scene.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, and the work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world. Read Why I created Consent Culture if you want to learn more about Gareth, and his past.

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