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Adult Baby Diaper Lover ABDL

Definition:

The term Adult Baby/Diaper Lover (ABDL) refers to individuals who engage in role-playing that involves adopting behaviors and presentations associated with infancy or early childhood. This subculture can be divided into two primary groups: Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers.

Adult Babies are individuals who enjoy acting and being treated as infants, which may include using baby clothing, pacifiers, and other baby items. They may engage in activities such as playing with toys, crawling, or seeking nurturing care from others. This behavior is often linked to the desire for comfort, safety, and regression to a simpler, more carefree state of being.

Diaper Lovers, on the other hand, have a specific affinity for diapers, deriving pleasure from wearing them or the act of diapering itself. This aspect may or may not involve the role-playing element of being an adult baby. Diaper lovers may appreciate the physical sensation of wearing diapers or the emotional comfort they provide, regardless of whether they partake in the broader adult baby role-play.

ABDL practices can manifest in varying degrees, from casual interest to more immersive experiences, and often occur within a consensual and safe framework among participants. It is important to note that ABDL is a distinct preference and is not inherently linked to any mental health issues; rather, it represents a niche within the broader spectrum of sexual and emotional expression.

An Adult Baby/Diaper Lover, often abbreviated as ABDL, is an individual who enjoys role-playing as a baby or toddler and/or has a sexual or emotional interest in wearing diapers. This term encompasses two distinct but related groups: adult babies, who may engage in activities such as wearing diapers, using pacifiers, and being cared for as a baby by a partner, and diaper lovers, who derive pleasure from wearing diapers but may not necessarily engage in baby role-playing.


Adult Baby: An adult who enjoys regressing to an infant or toddler role, often seeking nurturing or caretaking from a partner. This can involve activities like wearing diapers, using baby items, and engaging in baby talk.

Diaper Lover: An individual who finds pleasure or comfort in wearing diapers, which can be a form of fetish or kink. Diaper lovers may or may not engage in baby role-playing scenarios.

Engagement in ABDL activities is consensual and typically occurs within a safe, sane, and consensual framework. It is important for individuals within the ABDL community to communicate openly with partners about their desires and boundaries to ensure a positive and respectful experience for all involved.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, and the real work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world.

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