Forced orgasm play is a consensual sexual activity where one partner is made to experience orgasms without their active participation in the decision-making process. This practice often involves power dynamics, where one partner takes control while the other submits to the experience. It is essential to note that while the term “forced” may imply non-consent, in this context, it relies heavily on pre-established boundaries, mutual consent, and trust between partners.
To practice forced orgasm play consensually, communication is crucial. Begin by discussing interests, limits, and safe words with your partner. Establish clear boundaries and ensure that both individuals are comfortable with the situation. For example, you might agree on how many orgasms will be attempted during a session and what methods will be used, such as stimulation techniques or toys. Consent should always be enthusiastic and ongoing, allowing either partner to halt the activity at any time if they feel uncomfortable.
Once boundaries are set, you can explore different approaches to implement forced orgasm play. This could involve using restraints, blindfolds, or employing various tools designed for stimulation. Experiment with teasing, edging, and denial to heighten arousal before allowing an orgasm to occur. Remember to check in with your partner throughout the experience to ensure they are enjoying it and to reinforce the element of consensuality.
Finally, aftercare is an essential component of forced orgasm play. After the session, take time to reconnect with each other, discussing what worked well and any feelings that may have arisen. This helps reinforce trust and emotional safety, ensuring that both partners feel valued and respected following the experience.
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