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Wooden Spoon (Impact Play)

The wooden spoon is a common implement used in impact play, which refers to a type of BDSM activity involving striking or hitting the body to produce sensation, pleasure, or pain. Typically, a wooden spoon is characterized by its sturdy construction, flat surface, and curved handle, making it suitable for both light and moderate impact.

In the context of BDSM and kink, the wooden spoon can be applied to various parts of the body, such as the buttocks, thighs, or even the palms, depending on the preferences and safety considerations of the participants. The sensation produced by a wooden spoon can range from a gentle thud to a sharper sting, depending on the force used and the area struck.

When engaging in impact play with a wooden spoon, it is crucial for practitioners to establish clear communication and consent prior to the activity. Discussing limits, safe words, and aftercare helps ensure a positive and safe experience. For example, a bottom might express enjoyment from the wooden spoon for its ability to produce a satisfying sting, while others may prefer to avoid it altogether due to personal preferences or sensitivities.

In summary, the wooden spoon is a versatile and accessible tool in the realm of impact play, suitable for those exploring the physical and psychological aspects of BDSM relationships.

Impact play involves striking the body for sexual gratification, with Wooden Spoon being a specific tool used in this context.

Impact play is a form of BDSM play where one partner strikes another for sexual pleasure or pain. Wooden Spoon refers to using a wooden kitchen utensil, typically a spoon, for impact play. The sensation can range from a gentle tap to a more intense strike, depending on the desired intensity and the boundaries set by the participants.

Wooden Spoon can be used on various parts of the body, such as the buttocks, thighs, or back, and can create a range of sensations from stingy to thuddy. It is important for participants to communicate openly about their preferences, limits, and use safe words to ensure a consensual and enjoyable experience.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, and the work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world.

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