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A metamour is a term used in polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships to describe the partner of one’s partner, with whom one is not directly romantically involved.

This relationship exists in the context of a polyamorous network, where multiple romantic connections intersect. For instance, if Person A is in a romantic relationship with Person B, and Person B is also in a romantic relationship with Person C, then Person A and Person C are considered metamours.

The dynamics between metamours can vary widely. They may have a friendly relationship, maintain a polite distance, or engage in regular social interactions depending on the comfort levels and agreements among all parties involved. It is crucial for all individuals in such arrangements to communicate openly about their feelings and boundaries to ensure a healthy and respectful environment.

In summary, a metamour is an essential concept within non-monogamous relationship structures, emphasizing the interconnectedness of partners and the importance of navigating those relationships with respect and understanding.

Metamour

Metamour refers to the partner of one's partner in a non-monogamous relationship, such as in polyamory or other forms of ethical non-monogamy. This term is commonly used to describe the relationship between individuals who are connected through a shared partner but are not romantically or sexually involved with each other.


Metamour

A metamour is the partner of one's partner in a non-monogamous relationship. This term is often used in polyamorous relationships to refer to the individual with whom one shares a partner but is not directly romantically or sexually involved. For example, if Alice is dating Bob and Carol is also dating Bob but not Alice, then Alice and Carol would be metamours to each other. The relationship between metamours can vary greatly, from being close friends or even forming their own supportive connections to having minimal interaction depending on the dynamics and boundaries set by all involved parties.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, and the work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world.

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