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Pony Play is a form of role-play within the BDSM and kink communities where participants take on the roles of ponies and their handlers or trainers. This practice typically involves one person (the pony) adopting behaviors, aesthetics, and characteristics associated with ponies, while another person (the handler) provides direction, care, and training.

In Pony Play, the pony may wear specific gear such as saddles, harnesses, bit gags, and hoof boots to enhance their experience and embody the role more fully. The dynamics can vary significantly, as some participants may emphasize the physical aspects, such as riding and control, while others may focus more on the emotional or psychological components of the role-play.

The interactions in Pony Play can range from playful and fun to more serious and structured, depending on the preferences of those involved. For instance, a handler might guide their pony through exercises or tasks, reinforcing the care and training aspect, while also establishing a power dynamic typical of many BDSM practices.

Overall, Pony Play is a niche but celebrated form of expression within the broader kink community, highlighting the importance of consent, communication, and the creativity involved in role-playing scenarios.

Pony Play is a form of BDSM role-playing where one or more participants take on the role of a pony. This role-play often involves the submissive partner embodying the characteristics and behaviors of a pony, such as wearing a bridle, bit, saddle, and sometimes even hooves or a tail. The dominant partner may act as the trainer or owner of the pony, guiding and controlling their movements and actions.

Participants in Pony Play may engage in activities such as dressage, grooming, training, and even pulling carts or carriages. The focus is on the power dynamics and the exchange of control and submission within the context of the pony and trainer relationship.

Key Elements of Pony Play:

  • Role-Playing: Participants take on the roles of ponies and trainers.

  • Power Dynamics: The dominant partner typically takes on the role of the trainer or owner, while the submissive partner embodies the pony persona.

  • Equipment: This may include bridles, bits, saddles, and other gear to enhance the pony persona.

  • Activities: Participants may engage in various activities such as grooming, training, and even pulling carts.

Pony Play can be a form of sexual or non-sexual play, depending on the preferences and boundaries of the participants involved. It allows for exploration of control, submission, and power dynamics in a unique and creative way within the BDSM community.

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About the Author: Gareth Redfern-Shaw

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Gareth is the founder of Consent Culture, a platform focused on consent, kink, ethical non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, and the work of creating safer spaces. His work emphasizes meaningful, judgment-free conversations around communication, harm reduction, and accountability in practice, not just in name. Through Consent Culture, he aims to inspire curiosity, build trust, and support a safer, more connected world.

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